Monthly Archives: October 2017

How NOT to get what we really want… remember, the law of attraction takes us literally!

A woman emailed me recently, pleading for a consultation, and pouring out a tale of woe about her love life. However, she didn’t want to pay for it UNTIL she’d had the results she desired, because, she complained, she had already spent thousands of dollars on ‘spell casters’… and still the man she was desperate to reunite with was blocking her at every turn. Her email was awash with all of the things she wanted from this man, and all of the ways in which she wanted him to behave. I felt sorry for her, because she was clearly in a huge amount of emotional pain, but there was absolutely no way to help her. What she wants is never, ever going to happen, no matter how much money she spends, and no matter how many spells are cast. And I will explain why.

She is operating from a completely repellent energy field, created by fearful and manipulative intention. Her motivation is incredibly unhealthy, and has nothing to do with love. She has fallen into a dark pit of need, which is being fed by the raw pain of rejection. She has no interest in the well – being or happiness of the man who is doing his best to avoid any form of contact with her, and the ongoing rejection is pushing her further and further down into miserable obsession. She is blocking the light from her own life, and preventing herself from attracting the very thing she desires with every ounce of her being… to be in a loving, healthy, supportive relationship with a man who values and adores her. She is chasing the wrong dream, wishing the wrong wish… it is not the man she wants, it is love. And she clearly has no love at all for herself,  because her words and actions are outer evidence of a belief that the only way she can possibly be loved is to demand, force and manipulate it.  ‘All I want is…’ and ‘I just want my wish to come true’ was repeated again and again throughout her email. Her mental, emotional and physical focus is so strongly on the fact that she wants wants wants, wishes wishes wishes, she is entrapping herself, and she will continue to go round and round in the same miserable loop until she breaks it… and consciously creates a healthier, more loving and positively attractive energy field. Right now she can’t see that, and is unlikely to be open to anything other than what she wants to hear, and anyone who gets too close to her is going to be in trouble.

The good news is that she doesn’t have to remain in this self – imposed emotional hellhole. The law of attraction doesn’t care whether she does or not, but life does care (or God, the Universe, whatever name you want to give it). It will keep poking her, pushing her, nudging her, towards awareness, towards ‘aha’ moments, towards realisation. Life wants her to have what it is that she actually, truly wants and desires, but she has to learn how to use the creative tool that is the law of attraction, in the most appropriate way for the life she wants to live. The law of attraction itself is indifferent; it doesn’t analyse and choose – it responds, and it takes us literally.

Her email reminded me to double check my own current relationship with the law of attraction, and I realised I was slipping a bit in one area of my life! I am now consciously addressing that by fine – tuning my attitude, and taking appropriate action. You see, we are always a work in progress, and ongoing tweaking is an absolute must! Well, it is if we want to have some say over how we feel, and the direction our life is taking. If we remember that the law of attraction is a creative delivery service that doesn’t question our order, we’re more likely to be careful about what we give it to work with! Is there anything about your own current attitude and approach that you suspect could do with tidying up a bit, in order to attract more productive results, and gain fresh momentum? Is there anything you are dithering about, knowing you need to make a decision and take action? Are you struggling with inertia, promising yourself that you’ll give yourself a push tomorrow, next week, next year? Are you blaming circumstance, running critical dialogue through your mind, over and over? CAN you think better, feel better, and consciously and consistently improve your communication with the law of attraction? Absolutely… so start right now, this second!#loa